Exactly How The Being There Method Works

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What Is The Being There Method: A specific strategy employed if you find your ex has moved on that significantly raises your chances of success in getting them back.

How Does The Strategy Work? :
While your ex is dating someone new you simply compete with that other person for their time in a meaningful way.

The Secure Attachment Factor:

Arguably the best attachment style, secure attachment involves a deep trust in having the fortitude to deal with the fear of loss.

What Usually Happens If This Works?

The other person grows worried and starts pressuring and arguing with your ex (which lowers their value)


Questions To Answer:

The difference between BTM and MOWOMO ... Definitions and rules of engagement



How can you be there when he acts like he doesn't want you to be there?

Getting yourself in the right mindset is key
Sometimes the only thing you can do is wait and be patient
Make sure it doesn't look like you're waiting around for them and that means doing something extremely hard, going on dates with other people.


How to deal with big pullbacks when you are well in to the process

Often times big pullbacks happen before big breakthroughs but only if you handle the process right.
Remember, the secure attachment factor
You pull back when they pull back, wait a bit and re-engage
But how you re-engage is just as important.