Скачать или смотреть The Psychology of Bullying: Why Some People Get Targeted More

Now, let's go back to this guy who's having the murderous fantasies. Now, he's humiliated in high school. So you ask yourself, why? Well, there's a pretty good literature on bullies, bullying. And generally, bullies poke at all sorts of people. And they start with little pokes. And if they can get a response that's gratifying to their desire to shame, then they'll keep attacking. But they start off small. And not everybody gets bullied. Most people get bullied some when they're kids. But some people are targeted fairly frequently. And they're people who tend to react in the manner the bully wants. And perhaps they're also people who don't defend themselves very well when the first pokes occur. You know, they don't have a quick word in response. They won't stand up for themselves. They retreat. They get over emotional. So then you might ask yourself, well, why would that be?