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Today I will share my experience with my daughters who practice hijab and I will try finish their those misconceptions which they have or their mother were unable to finish it, so I will try as a mother to help you sort out this.
If you're are practicing hijab and someone rejected you because of it then you're lucky because you got rid of a negative minded person. It was not just a single negative trait of him but complete negative package which you were supposed to face after marriage. It was not just about this demand to leave hijab but there were a lot of negative demands to be done from you which obviously you were not able to fulfill and as a result you were going to have a bitter life, So you got rescued by Allah subhanuhu wa taala. Don't think that he rejected you instead you think that you rejected him because he was not a good choice for you, was a negative person and you were unable to fulfill his negative needs. Always think this way if you faced a situation like this.

people come with marriage proposal and ask for your picture without hijab or says when we will come for rishta you don't have to be in hijab that day, don't ever agree with them because this is a red flag that the family is a negative minded and these demands will be much more after marriage and your mindset is totally different. People call them Roshan khiyali or liberalism or whatever but you are totally different like being on two different poles. So you don't have to be sad if someone rejected you because of not fulfilling their such demands.
Some people agree with demands like this whose consequences are faced by daughters. Some people consider it just a simple demands and they think it doesn't matter if I don't do hijab just for one day but I say it's a matter of life. Don't compromise on this, just wait, Allah just test you with this and HE is the best planner. If you wait and passed this test, you will get a like minded person and will be having a good and happy and peaceful life, so wait and hope for the best.

if a girl start practicing hijab, some families say to their daughter don't start practicing hijab now, do it after your marriage otherwise you won't be having good proposals or you won't be looking good and pretty so you won't be having proposals. Remember these are the temptations of devil. Allah is the planner of all these matters. If you reject devil's temptations and don't act upon them you will be having best plan from Allah SWT.
Some girls start practicing naqaab and the whole family become against her and say you are too little to do this. In same way if a boy start having beard, the family start calling him a molvi and say you won't be social enough and bla bla. Believe all these are just myths. It's a very fortunate thing of you start following Sunnah of prophet in young age and Allah really like it and remember Satan will always try to distract you. If you're strong enough to withhold Satan distraction, Satan will try to put temptations in your family members hearts. But you have to be stronger because you are a lucky to have a mind like this in young age and very less people are having a mentality like this. I will advise the parents to stop teasing your kids if they want to follow Sunnah in younger age and encourag your kids and let them follow Sunnah and Quran. You and your kids will never regret.

some girls have questions like this if they marry a very religious man then we will be having a lot of restrictions and he will prohibit them from doing this and that so they won't be having a modern life. Another text I got from a girl. She said I am an open minded girl, I watch TV but my parents are planning for marrying me in a very religious family. I am very sad and I will attempt suicide but I won't marry there. Then I tried to counselled her . I told her to blindly agree to their parents. And I told her that if the family is really religious you will be happy and you are judging them too much. There won't be such restrictions which you are thinking about.

Yes. Sometimes people aren't really religious but they pretend to be, like they only offer namaz and fasting but there environment of home is very toxic and they put a lot of useless restrictions on girls and when you spend time with them you realize that they aren't religious exactly. So it your responsibility to differentiate between them that who is religious and who's not exactly.

Last but not the least thing!
To those who make fun of girls when they start practicing hijab or boys when they start having beards. Please don't do this because Allah don't like this and you are not making fun of them but you're making fun of Allah's order. It seems very simple to us but by doing this we are inviting Allah's anger.