Do You Struggle to Express Yourself?

Communication is hard: I struggle to express what I want and how I feel in dating and relationships

Fam, I see this a lot with successful men - and a lot of successful women too.

It's a SUPER common challenge and I see it all the time.

I get it.


In many ways, self-expression and being authentic and honest and speaking up for ourselves is one of the hardest things for so many of us.


And we hear all the time that communication is the most important thing for relationships.


So, we feel pressure, we feel bad, we realize that things aren’t working…


…and so you’re likely thinking that you need to work on your communication and delivery, and build confidence in this.


But what if your struggle with expressing yourself is more about your mindset and beliefs rather than your ability to communicate?


What if it doesn’t have to be the case for you?


What if it you can actually solve it in one, smooth, seamless sweep, when you know what to do - and this is actually going to improve your life in so many incredible other ways?

9 times out of 10, the reason you struggle to communicate is because it’s a mindset block rather than a communication issue.


It’s less about what you are saying, and how you are communicating it…


…And more about your own self-confidence, and how secure, clear, and connected to yourself you are?


It’s more about your connection to what you have to say, how you feel into it, trust it, and transmit it clearly, sincerely, and from the heart.


The problem is, often we don't even know what it is that we want to say, because we might have blocks around this, we might have suppressed or repressed things so much we don’t even know.


Or we might be conditioned by our parents, society and culture so much that we don't even know what we think.


Or we struggle with confidence and a belief that we won’t get heard, or we’ll be misunderstood all the time…which stems from childhood.


This is all pretty normal - thought it doesn’t have to be this way.


It’s rarely about how you are communicating and what you are saying, and more about how you feel about it, and what you believe about what you are saying. It’s about how much you embody your own truth, and how much in integrity it is with you.


Do you BELIEVE in what you have to say?


Do you BELIEVE in your own voice? In your own truth?


Do you BELIEVE that what you are saying is worthy of being heard?


Do you FEEL that you can trust yourself, and trust your own voice?


This isn’t a communication issue.


This is a self-belief issue, a self-worth issue.


Sure, communication techniques play a part in this, but they are just one small part.


The bigger part is how you feel about yourself.


And you deserve to feel amazing about yourself.


You deserve to feel really, really, really good about yourself.


And you can.


It can be easy, and fun, and an exciting process to develop this.


It doesn’t have to be scary or overwhelming, it can be easeful, and nourishing.


All of this is rooted in the Behavioral Science of Attraction:


Liberate yourself from your self-sabotage and low self-esteem

Discover the Behavioral Science of being clear on who you are, what you need, and what you want

Get into Integrity by communicating this clearly, authentically, and easefully.

When you do this, rather than just tackle communication, you transform your whole life.


By building your confidence and self-esteem, you learn to express yourself more authentically, honestly, and clearly in your relationships.


In your personal life and professional.


You also start to get really clear on what it is that you want and need in relationship so that you are in the RIGHT relationship.


Same goes for your career.


Same goes for your wealth.


Your home life.

Your hobbies.

For example: Before he started working with me, one client of mine felt stuck in an endless loop of unfulfilling relationships that led to nowhere. He had weak boundaries, weak willpower, and kept ending up in dynamics where he felt frustrated, unheard, and unseen.

He'd read some attachment theory books before, and he'd had some counseling, but he still struggled to express himself.

After we worked together and he mastered the Behavioral Science of Attraction, he was able to communicate SO much more clearly, think more clearly, focus, and be more productive. He's so excited for his life. He's emanating it.

It all gets so much better, so much more juicy, delicious, good, and nourishing, when you are able to express yourself honestly, authentically, and clearly.

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