Chit Chat & GRWM: Hair, Dating, & Desirability

Hello! I'm back with another GRWM and I promise this one won't be deleted! After my video on dating theories the other day, I feel that one in particular, the "hard wig/soft life" theory needs a little more examination. In this video, I'd like to specifically call Black women in so that we can be honest about how our hair affects our dating experiences, why some people might seek acceptance in other communities due to desirability issues based on hair appearance, and whether or not we should ever base our own success in love on someone else's story. Products and time stamps used in the video are listed below!

0:00 Intro
5:37 Let's Not Forget How Hair = Desirability
12:11 Does Natural Hair Make Interracial Dating Easier?
17:06 Is Hard Wig/Soft Life Mean?
18:46 Does Hard Wig/Soft Life Ostracize Black Women?
21:43 Is Hard/Wig Soft Life...Pick Me Energy?
23:48 Why Would I Take This Personal Topic On?
25:38 Just Remember...Your Story is Your Story ✨❤️

Primer: Topicals Sealed Active Scar Primer
Concealer: Fenty Prowear Concealer (shade 445)
Foundation: Lancome Teinte Idole (shade 515 W)
Eyebrow: Anastasia Beverly Hills (Pencil and Highlighter Crayon)
Blush: Rare Beauty (Shade: Faith)
Loose Baking Powder: Huda beauty (shade: Peach Pie)
Powder Foundation: Fenty Powder Foundation (shade: 430)
Lip Oil: Elf Lip Glow Reviver Lip Oil (shade Jam Session)

Hair: https://amzn.to/42AZtJV (affliate link)