Lady Bird, Fences, and Why You Don't Need to Forgive Your Parents

In this video I explore the themes that Lady Bird and Fences present, the main one being complicated relationships between children and their parents, and try to answer the question of why parent and child relationships become strained, and how parents can do better, and in Troy's words - right - by their children.

*Intro*
Why don’t you like me? Scene comparison 0:00
Call to action/please like and comment! 3:27

*Fences*
Fences Breakdown and Themes 4:27
The Passing Down of Trauma/Breaking the cycle of abuse 9:31

*Lady Bird*
Lady Bird Breakdown and Themes 13:31
Dealing with immature parents 16:45

*Conversation about Themes and Parenting*
The Consequences of Intergenerational Trauma 19:36
“Do this right now” and shows of parental power 21:22
Age Bias and Guilt 24:10
What does good parenting look like? And Freaky Friday 28:43
Gratitude and Privacy 29:11
Stop trying to read your kid’s diary 30:45
Losing yourself in your child/FIND A HOBBY 31:33
You don’t need to forgive your parents! 33:46
Divest from labels 34:52
The Fear of Turning Into Your Parents 36:56
Final thoughts/Outro 38:50

Next video will be on Friday March 12th about Asian Oscar Bait or movies with Asian casts and settings used to win white people Oscar gold.

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