Kill the Nice Guy | Why Selfish Men are More Successful and Attractive | The Joys of Being a Badass

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As we dig deeper into the depths of attraction, it becomes clear that women adore men who score high on dark triad traits.

These dark triad traits include narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. Men who score high on dark triad traits are usually more confident and selfish than their less self-assured peers. They’re also more likely to be self-interested and attempt to manipulate and exploit other people without any sense of guilt or remorse.

Among such men, there’s a dark, apathetic quality that often underpins their relationships with women; a quality that challenges women and keeps them around despite the man’s “asshole” behavior. Research has found evidence to suggest that men who possess dark triad traits are more likely to date more women, have more sex, and be seen as more attractive.

A study published in the Journal of Evolutionary Psychology suggests that self-absorbed, narcissistic men are more desirable for both one-night stands and short-term relationships.

If research into attraction is anything to go by, women are more attracted to men who wear flashy, stylish clothes, have humorous verbal expressions, and display open, confident body language—all qualities that narcissists possess in abundance.

It’s for this reason that narcissists strike such a powerful first impression: they are natural born charmers who stand out from the crowd.

Another trait that makes dark triad men so appealing is their self-absorbed nature. The dark triad man puts himself and his needs first.

Taken to an extreme, men who score high on dark triad traits are often highly destructive, not just to themselves but to the people around them. And even though it’s estimated that approximately one percent of the world’s population is psychopathic, the majority of psychopaths are fully functional, productive members of society.

Instead of becoming serial killers and mass murderers, as depicted by Hollywood, most “functional psychopaths” live highly productive lives, only resorting to manipulation and deception to get what they want.

The benefits of selfishness and narcissism mustn’t be underestimated.

The man who’s selfish and self-centered is much more likely to be successful in life. He’s more likely to get promoted, get what he wants, and acquire more skills and knowledge along the way. He’s more likely to start his own business. And he’s more likely to acquire a greater number of assets and resources in the process. This is part of the reason why women find dark triad men so attractive.

Dark triad men are not only more resourceful and assertive—two important components of attraction—they’re also more likely to be charming and humorous. Another aspect that makes dark triad men so alluring is their propensity to take risks and go after what they want without fear of reprisal.

This was corroborated by a study published in the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin. The study found that men who displayed nonconformist traits such as risk-taking and assertiveness were seen as more attractive.

After all, in a world where most people are conformist, the man who’s unafraid to stand out is a unique and valuable commodity.

Women want men who have a sense of purpose and ambition. The last thing a woman wants is a man who’s focused exclusively on her and her erratic emotions. A woman must feel safe pouring her emotions into you without having to worry that you’ll fold under pressure.

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