LAURA WHITMORE | Under Your Skin With Grace Neutral [Episode 10]

In this emotionally charged episode of Under Your Skin, Grace Neutral sits down with Laura Whitmore to explore a range of deep and personal topics, focusing primarily on sexual consent, societal norms around sex, and the profound impact these issues have on women's lives.

The conversation begins with Grace discussing Laura's impactful documentary work, particularly one that delves into the normalization of rough sex and its troubling implications. Both Grace and Laura reflect on the challenges women face in such situations, especially the difficulty of being believed when reporting incidents of sexual violence. They talk about how society often misinterprets or ignores the concept of consent, leading to harmful consequences for many women.

Laura shares her personal experiences, shedding light on the pressures of societal expectations and the pervasive issue of toxic masculinity. The discussion reveals the complex, often blurred lines surrounding sexual consent and the frequent inadequacy of legal protections for victims. Both women recount their own stories of growing up in environments where sex was either not discussed or poorly addressed, leading to confusion and fear during their formative years.

The episode also touches on Laura’s experiences with stalking and harassment, including the dismissive attitudes of authorities when she sought help. This conversation broadens to include the psychological toll of cyberstalking, linking it to wider issues of gender-based violence and the difficulties victims face in being taken seriously.

A significant portion of the discussion is devoted to the portrayal of sex in media, particularly pornography, and the harmful effects this can have on young people who consume such content without proper understanding of consent. Grace reflects on her early involvement in the kink and fetish scene, highlighting how these communities, often misunderstood, emphasize the importance of consent—something frequently missing in mainstream depictions of sex.

Laura also reflects on her upbringing in a Catholic environment in Ireland, where sex education was minimal or entirely absent, leaving many young people unprepared to navigate their sexual lives safely. Both women discuss the negative effects of growing up in such repressive environments and how it influenced their understanding of sex and relationships.

The episode concludes with Grace and Laura underscoring the importance of open and honest conversations about sex, consent, and the societal structures that perpetuate harmful behaviors. They advocate for better education and more supportive environments for victims of sexual violence and harassment.

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