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In this podcast episode, psychologists John and Julie Gottman explore various aspects of attraction and relationships, challenging common myths and offering insights based on research. They discuss the myth of compatibility, emphasizing that attraction often stems from genetic differences and the quality of interactions rather than superficial traits. The Gottmans stress the importance of realistic expectations in dating, caution against rushing into relationships, and highlight the significance of authentic confidence.

They delve into communication dynamics, identifying negative patterns that can predict relationship failure, such as criticism and defensiveness. The Gottmans also address the role of alcohol in social interactions, the complexities of sexual attraction, and the importance of gratitude in fostering emotional bonds. They discuss the impact of infidelity, offering a model for healing that includes atonement, attunement, and attachment.

Additionally, they emphasize the significance of "bids for connection," noting that successful couples respond positively to these attempts to engage. The episode concludes with practical advice for maintaining connection and understanding in relationships, underscoring the need for open communication and emotional support.

00:00 Introduction
00:22 Are We Attracted to People Different from Us?
01:11 Do We Need to Lower Our Expectations?
01:45 It's a Red Flag When They Want to Rush Things
02:17 Can You Fake Confidence?
02:51 Science Knows If People Connect Well or Not
03:30 How to Build Confidence
04:05 Differences Between Gender in Attraction
04:48 Why People Need Alcohol When Dating
05:20 Is 'Good Enough' Enough to Be with Someone?
05:58 The Role of Sex in Attraction
06:34 How to Spice Things Up
07:13 How Much Sex Should We Be Having?
07:48 Men Struggle to Talk About Their Feelings
08:22 Expressing Gratitude to Your Partner
08:56 How to Know If You Should Break Up
09:27 The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse in a Relationship
10:14 Insecure People Are More Defensive
10:47 Do Homosexual Relationships Last Longer?
11:24 Gaslighting
11:56 Why People Stay with Gaslighters or Abusers
12:31 How to Help People Going Through Domestic Violence
13:16 Understanding Infidelity
13:48 The Model for Treating Affairs
14:45 The Impact of Cheating
15:17 Bids for Connection
16:30 Practical Advice for Connection

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Publish date: Sep 16, 2024

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