Скачать или смотреть Nerd Dating Coach - How I Earned a Black Belt in Dating—Using The Algorithmic Dating Method

Short, nerdy, average-looking—and done with guesswork? In this video I show how I went from “statistically impossible” to “predictably successful” by treating dating like a system you can train, not a mystery you hope for. I call it The Algorithmic Dating Method.

What you’ll learn

Why both extremes are wrong: pickup “tricks” and black-pill fatalism

How to separate unchangeable factors (height, bone structure) from controllables (fitness, style, skills)

The 8-belt skill progression: from starting conversations to sustaining relationships

Two paths to attraction: Quick (when your odds are 20%+) vs Gradual (build emotional connection over time)

The 5 vectors of attraction (Physical, Emotional, Intellectual, Security, Resource) and which ones to double down on

How to track your progress like a sales funnel so you fix the right stage instead of guessing

Proof over promises

I’m 167cm (5'6"). I used this method to date women taller, younger, higher-status, and conventionally “out of my league”—and I’ve helped other men with real disadvantages do the same. This isn’t luck; it’s a replicable algorithm.

The 8 Belts (overview)

White — Framework and statistics
Yellow — Initiation without outcome dependence (50 reps)
Orange — Create dialogue (20+ quality 1–2 min conversations)
Green — Natural contact exchange
Blue — Low-pressure meetings (10 first dates worth of practice)
Brown — Physical escalation (calibrated, consensual)
Black — Intimate relationships (skills, boundaries, honesty)
Black 1st Dan — Relationship maintenance

Case study (1 min summary)

David, a successful founder, kept losing women at Stage 2 (Dialogue). We rebuilt his conversation structure, reduced “impressing” by 80%, increased emotional connection, and fixed style and fitness in parallel. Eight months later, he’s engaged—to someone who once filtered out guys his height.

Who this is for

Analytical minds who want data over delusion

Professionals willing to practice micro-skills and track metrics

Men who’ll maximize controllables instead of making excuses

Work with me (selective)

I keep this exclusive to protect effectiveness and give deep, 1:1 attention. I also offer payment after results—you pay when measurable progress happens, not before.

👉 Free 30-min strategy session:
https://bossinlove.com

We’ll diagnose your current stage, map the fastest path, and see if we’re a fit. No pressure, just clarity.

Key takeaways

Stop trying to win over the 50% who will never be interested; focus on your compatible segment

Build Emotional + Intellectual + Physical (controllable) rather than flexing money

Train skills in isolation, then stack them (belts)

Measure each stage like a pipeline and fix the bottleneck

Ethics and respect: Always act with honesty, consent, and goodwill. No manipulation, no gimmicks.

Transparency note: This video was generated with AI. Some examples and wording were adjusted in the process, but the core principles of the Algorithmic Dating Method are described accurately and unchanged in spirit.

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