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no tears. no anger. she just looked at me with hollow eyes and said:

"I spent 3 years being a 'maybe' for men who were still looking for their yes"

my stomach dropped.

because i realized she had been living as someone's second choice while thinking she was building something real.

bleeding for men who kept her close enough to use, far enough to lose.

9 blind spots that made her the backup plan:

1. she mistook convenience for connection
if he only texts after 9pm, you're not his priority. you're his boredom cure.

2. she accepted "almost relationships"
acting like a girlfriend without the title = being his practice round.

3. she thought mixed signals meant he was "confused"
he's not confused. you're just not the main character in his story.

4. she made herself too available
always free when he calls = teaching him your time has no value.

5. she ignored the weekend test
if he won't claim you on saturday night, you're his secret, not his choice.

6. she accepted breadcrumbs as effort
good morning texts aren't dates. stop feeding yourself crumbs.

7. she waited for him to "figure it out"
men know what they want in week 1. everything after is just stalling.

8. she competed with other women
if you're in competition, you've already lost. queens don't audition.

9. she thought patience proved her worth
waiting for someone to choose you is just teaching them you'll accept less.

here's changed:

she stopped being available for men who weren't available for her.

she started walking away at the first sign of lukewarm interest.

now she's someone's first choice because she refused to be anyone's backup.

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