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For many people, learning how to deal with conflict can feel really uncomfortable. On the other hand, some people really enjoy a good conflict AND confrontation. Either way, if you are a human and have relationships with other humans, conflict is going to happen. When a conflict arises, you have choices. You can either choose to avoid that person or issue, ultimately leading to misunderstandings and possible resentment, OR you can choose to stay committed to resolving the conflict in a healthy way. When a conflict comes up the first step is taking it to Holy Spirit, and allowing him to help you understand, forgive, bless, and release the other person. Often, this is all that is needed--no confrontation required. When, however, a confrontational conversation IS needed, it doesn’t have to be a super emotional and dramatic event. If you choose to take a posture that seeks to understand rather than win, more often than not the conversation will produce life. Truthfully, not every conflict can be resolved peacefully, and that’s okay. Your job is simply to forgive and bless that person knowing that forgiveness doesn’t mean it’s okay, but that you’re taking yourself out of the judgement seat and releasing them to God. When you choose to be kind, open, and empathetic, you are choosing to stay engaged and allow the Holy Spirit to help you graciously resolve the conflict.

The Holy Spirit helps with confrontation!
Matthew 18:20 (TPT) - For wherever two or three come together in honor of my name, I am right there with them!