Willingness- The Surprising Antidote to Anxiety - Anxiety Course 5/30

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00:00 Intro
00:43 Willingness To Change
10:56 Wall Sit
14:15 Fear Of Heights Video Exercise

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In the last video we learned that avoidance doesn’t work, trying to force our feelings to change doesn’t work. But neither does giving in to them, just letting anxiety run the show or make your decisions. So what the heck do we do with Anxiety? The fundamental antidote to problematic anxiety is willingness, learning how to feel anxiety, make space for it, listen to it, but not be bothered or controlled by it. Willingness is learning how to drop the struggle with your feelings, so that you can free your hands, your life, to do what you really care about.

Willingness is the most powerful tool for managing anxiety, because when you have willingness, anxiety can’t control you any more. So in this video you’ll learn what willingness is, how to develop it, and you’ll get to practice it to see what it feels like.
What is willingness?
OK, I’m going to tell you a few things about willingness, then we’re going to jump in and try.
Present Moment- We’re going to direct our attention to the here and now
Exploring- Letting go of judgment about emotions and describing them instead- Beginner’s mind, fresh experience. (tongue example)
Allowing- Dropping the struggle with emotions, it’s accepting that they exist. It’s not liking, wanting or enjoying feeling something- it’s just acknowledging the reality- that I am feeling this, and allowing that feeling to be there.
Curiosity- Being curious about them instead of resisting them
Expand- Replacing aversion with openness- leaning in, making space. Being flexible and open instead of rigid and trying to control something you can’t control.

Why would I do that? Because resisting feeling is what’s messing up your life. Trying to not feel anxious forces you into avoiding the things you care about, hardening your heart, cutting off possibilities.


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