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Few things cut deeper than watching your partner flirt with someone else—especially if they’re a Fearful Avoidant. It can leave you feeling jealous, rejected, and unsure of where you stand. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down why Fearful Avoidants flirt, what it really means about their inner world, and the exact steps you can take to protect your boundaries and self-worth.

You’ll discover that flirting often has more to do with insecurity, fear of abandonment, or creating distance than it does with your value. Most importantly, you’ll learn how to respond in a way that de-escalates conflict, sets clear boundaries, and helps you step into your power.

You’ll learn:
✅ The 3 main reasons Fearful Avoidants flirt while in relationships
✅ How jealousy activates the same brain pathways as physical pain—and how to calm that response
✅ Why their behavior reflects their fear and insecurity, not your worth
✅ A 4-step framework to regulate yourself, set boundaries, and call them out in a healthy way
✅ What to do if you’re the Fearful Avoidant and want to break this painful pattern
✅ How neuroscience and ancient wisdom both point to the importance of self-respect and individuation

Episode Breakdown:
00:00 – Intro
01:45 – They May Flirt to Test if Their Partner Values Them
02:32 – They May Flirt to Protect Themselves From Being Vulnerable
03:19 – They Flirt to Manage Their Insecurity and Fear of Abandonment
03:47 – How it Works Neuroscientifically
04:43 – Step 1: Regulate Your Reaction
06:03 – Integrated Attachment Theory™ Certification
06:56 – Step 2: Do Not Let the Other Person’s Behavior Define Your Value
08:12 – Step 3: Call the Fearful Avoidant Out in a Healthy Way
09:00 – Step 4: Follow Up to Set and Keep Your Boundaries
10:06 – Ask Yourself: What is the Cost of Doing This?
12:21 – Address Those Needs in Healthier Ways
13:31 – Ancient Wisdom on Self-Consideration
14:56 – Conclusion

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

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When a Fearful Avoidant flirts, it can feel like betrayal—but it’s often a reflection of their own fear and insecurity. Healing begins when you stand in your truth, honor your standards, and choose relationships rooted in real security.💕