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Disorganised attachment, often referred to as fearful-avoidant attachment, is characterized by a fundamental conflict: a deep desire for intimacy paired with an intense fear of it.

​Unlike other insecure attachment styles that have a "strategy" for dealing with distress (like clinging or withdrawing), people with this style often feel they have no safe way to get their needs met.

​The Core Conflict
​The hallmark of disorganized attachment is the "fright without solution." Because the person’s primary caregiver was often a source of fear rather than safety, the individual grows up viewing the people they love as also being the people who might hurt them. This creates a painful "push-pull" dynamic in relationships.