The 5 Biggest Mistakes People Make After No Contact That Ruin Their Chances With Their Ex

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The 5 Biggest Mistakes People Make After No Contact That Ruin Their Chances With Their Ex

In this video we’re going to discuss;
Mistake #1 – You’re Coming On Too Strong
Mistake #2 – Texting Too Little
Mistake #3 – Fighting With Your Ex Or Bringing Up Past Issues
Mistake #4 – Showing Too Much Emotion
Mistake #5 - They Don’t Focus On Themselves

These are not the typical lists that you can google, this is based on reality. Every mistake you see on this list has been admitted by our clients, and we’ve deal with these in our Private Facebook Group.

Mistake #1 – You’re Coming On Too Strong
The first thing we recommend our client to do is to do the No Contact Rule where you ignore your ex from 21-45 days, where you get a lot of anxiety built up and when it is over you end up making the mistake of rushing too much too soon.

Starting to text your ex, and getting a positive response you get carried away and start texting too much.

Mistake #2 – Texting Too Little
This is the opposite side of the spectrum; you have some people who has entitlement issues and you think that doing that alone is going to get your ex to beg for you back. It really doesn’t work that way. Falling into that trap can lose over a month of attempting to get your ex back.

Mistake #3 – Fighting With Your Ex Or Bringing Up Past Issues
I’m really big on the peak end rule, where you humans remember experiences, they remember the best part and the end. When working with clients I tell them to emphasise the peak of the relationship and client seem to struggle to let go of the end of the relationship and all you’re doing is forcing your ex to remember the end of the experience instead of the peak.

Mistake #4 – Showing Too Much Emotion
The science of relationship is following direction and following game plans. The art of the relationship is more on the emotional things saying I love you saying I miss you.

There are usually two types of people the logical ones and the emotional ones. Usually the logical ones can follow direct but struggle to show the emotional side of things. Where the Emotional one will struggle to follow through with directions.

Mistake #5 - They Don’t Focus On Themselves
When you are trying to get your ex back you don’t realise that your focus needs to be on yourself not your ex. I see clients doing this all the time. When that happens, this comes through there and you’re not as attractive to your ex as you first thought.

There is a reason why, people who are done trying to get their ex back and try to focus on themselves instead of putting their energy into their exes getting success with their ex.

Why? It’s because they’ve stopped obsessing about their ex.

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