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Why do we feel more attached to people who give us less ?
And bored by the ones who treat us well?
In this video, we explore the psychology and neuroscience behind unstable attraction patterns, intermittent reinforcement, dopamine, attachment theory, and nervous system regulation.
Once you understand the mechanism, the pattern becomes predictable and breakable !

Sources & Further Reading:
• Hazan, C., & Shaver, P. (1987). Romantic Love Conceptualized as an Attachment Process.
• Bowlby, J. (1969). Attachment and Loss.
• Skinner, B.F. (1953). Science and Human Behavior – Intermittent Reinforcement
• Schultz, W. (1997). A Neural Substrate of Prediction and Reward.
• Fisher, H., Aron, A., & Brown, L. (2005). Romantic love: a mammalian brain system.
• Kahneman, D., & Tversky, A. (1979). Prospect Theory.
• Arkes, H.R., & Blumer, C. (1985). The Psychology of Sunk Cost.
• Baumeister, R.F., & Leary, M.R. (1995). The Need to Belong.
• Porges, S. (Polyvagal Theory)
• Siegel, D. – Window of Tolerance