Are you a LONELY EXPAT moving to the Philippines to find Happiness?

Why do expats retire to the Philippines? I’ve been living in Asia over 4 years now and have spent the majority of my waking and sleeping hours alone. And since setting up my YouTube channel 2 years ago many people watching my travels ask the question - “Are you not Lonely being alone all the time?”

Now maybe you’re considering moving to the Philippines. Have reached an age where you’re invisible to women in the west and have decided to try your luck in the Philippines. A guy from Australia messaged me recently. He’d been watching my YouTube videos and saw himself moving to the Philippines. Said he was really, really lonely. Wanted to fly to Cebu and have me help him find a filipina. As if hooking up with a filipina would create eternal happiness. Said he’d buy me a few beers. Ha! I don’t think he’d been to the Philippines or ever met a filipina before.

Turn up at the Magic KINGDOM and everything will be fine.
So he’s putting the emphasis on a flipina to provide him with happiness.
Jesus. You can’t depend on other people to bring you happiness. You need to sort yourself out. Well he was obviously expecting a filipina to do that for him.

A guy in a vulnerable state. He’s got no chance. She has family, probably children. All waiting to pounce on an unstable victim. She will bleed you dry. Do not be that guy.

Don’t make coming to the Philippines to find a filipina the solution to your loneliness. Don’t come to the Philippines just to meet a lady. Why would you do that? Sure you can make a filipina part of your plans. But don’t make that your sole reason for coming here.

I’ve always been a loner. As a child I’d spend the majority of my time in my bedroom. I guess we all did. But being self-sufficient paved the way for how i am now. I read profiles of filipinas online saying they’re just looking to chat with somebody online, because they’re bored. I’m never bored. In my mind A Bored person is a Boring person.

There’s so much you can do with your time. Read a book, write a journal, take photographs, make a video, create some artwork, going to the gym, go for a swim, do the laundry, do some housework. Keeping busy means There’s no reason to be bored if you’re always active and making good use of your time.

Living in the Philippines you can never be lonely anyway. Just walking the streets in any given day you’ll be greeted frequently by the local with shouts of Hey Joe. I love how it’s very easy to engage with most people here.

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