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Trump–Putin Meeting Decoder: 6 CLUES Smart Women Look for at Work

If you’ve been watching the recent Trump–Putin meetings and thought, “Wow—some people can’t find the truth with both hands,” this training is for you. I’ll show you the six tells you can read in a meeting and give you exact phrases to say—so you can steer the meeting in your favor without raising your voice. All you have to do is know what to look for and know what to say. You’ll get both—plus a printable checklist—so the right line is always one glance away.

What you’ll learn (exactly as covered in the video)

Green-light handshake (balanced grip, steady eye contact): what it signals and the precise opener to confirm alignment.

Red-light handshake (pulls you off your axis): how to soft-enter, ask permission, and surface concerns immediately so resistance doesn’t stall the meeting.

Mid-meeting tells to watch: posture (leaning back, “I’m in charge/bored”), feet pointing toward the door, or an engaged lean-in with a pleasant expression.

What to say in each case: red-light language that lowers defenses and plants “this is a win for you,” and green-light language that locks a decision while momentum is high.

Closing the loop at the end: how to turn vague praise (“It went great, covered a lot of ground”) into a clear yes/no tied to specific action—owners, dates, and follow-up.

Reference strategy: why it’s okay to keep a cheat sheet or reference page in your portfolio if you don’t have these lines in your “verbal repertoire” yet.

Sample scripts (pulled from the transcript)

Green-light opener (handshake alignment):
“From everything I’ve gathered up till this point, I believe so far we’re on the same page. Is that your understanding as well?”

Red-light opener (off-balance handshake):
“If it’s okay with you—so that I can make sure you have everything you need to feel this is a win for you going forward—can I start by asking what concerns you might have that haven’t been addressed yet, or what objections you’d like me to clear up right away?”

Mid-meeting red-light (posture/feet show resistance):
“If it’s okay with you—so that I can ensure you’re comfortable this is a win for you—can you tell me where you believe we might not yet be aligned?”

Mid-meeting green-light (engaged, leaning in):
“It looks like so far we’re on the same page. What do you say we lock in a decision while the momentum is with us? Does that sound agreeable to you?”

Vague-summary → precision close (end of meeting):
“When you say the meeting went great, do you mean we’re green-lighting the trade agreement that goes into effect in July—or do we still need to adjust some constraints first?”

Actionable follow-up (if they confirm):
“Perfect—then let me confirm the owners and dates. I’ll put it in a one-pager and hit send by three. What do you say?”

Why this works

Most people debate the words and ignore the signals. When a handshake pulls you off your axis, posture leans away, or feet angle toward the door, you don’t push harder—you pivot sooner. Asking permission lowers defenses, naming their win frames cooperation, and a binary close (“Do you mean X, or should we adjust Y?”) forces clarity without conflict. Result: you speak less, decide more, and leave with next steps instead of “we’ll circle back.”

How to use this video (straight from the lesson)

Scan the hello/handshake for green vs. red.

Use the matching opener immediately.

Watch mid-meeting posture/feet/engagement.

Pivot with the red- or green-light phrase.

Close by converting vague praise into a yes/no tied to action.

Confirm owners/dates; send the one-pager.

Free resource

🔗 Download the FREE Meeting Decoder (PDF Cheat Sheet) — the same checklist referenced in the video so you can keep the right lines handy. [Insert your link]

Final note from the transcript

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction: Decoding Meeting Dynamics
00:34 Analyzing Handshakes: The First Impression
01:14 Handling Hostility: Red Light Phrases
01:41 Addressing Concerns: Building Trust
03:27 Mid-Meeting Strategies: Reading Posture
05:47 Closing the Meeting: Ensuring Clarity
07:39 Final Tips: Professional Communication