How to Provide the BEST Sexual Experience for a Woman: My Top 10 Tips

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It's wild but I've been on over 250 dates when I was dating in NYC. Tracked it all on a spreadsheet so I can prove it. When I think of valuable advice I'd offer for guys this is what comes to mind. I hope the video might be of use to someone who finds it. LMK your thoughts good or bad as I'd love to hear it either way. You can also just read the tips down below if the vid is too long or watch me in double speed.

Tip # 1: GO SLOWER

It's so important to go slow. Don't be that guy who is always rushing the foreplay, rushing through actually feeling the skin beneath your fingertips, and RELISHING the moment. It is so attractive when a guy really knows how to savor the make-out and doesn't impatiently hurry you along to the finish line.

Tip #2: START WITH "NON SEXUAL" BODY PARTS AND BUILD UP

hands, fingers, neck, back, sides, waist, stomach, legs, hair, face--all extremely important and overlooked areas where you should begin and build up to the main attraction. Slow burn style. Never 0-100, but 0, 10, 20, 30, 40, 50, 60, 70, 80, 90...

Tip # 3: FOREPLAY IS EVERYTHING

Everything will feel better for the woman with foreplay. Everything is activated, alive and fully warmed up. It will feel better, in fact, the best it can feel this way. Don't skip to the finish line.

TIP #4: DONT USE LUBE

If your using lube she isn’t ready yet. Go back to more foreplay. Look into getting omgyes.com to get some good ideas for what girls like for foreplay.

TIP # 5: TELL HER YOU UNCONDITIONALLY ACCEPT HER BODY

During foreplay and beyond, be continuously reassuring her that she is hot, sexy, beautiful and even throw in once if you want, that u "love and unconditionally accept every part of her body" or something to that effect. Do you know how insecure girls are about their bodies? Let me know in comments below. This can do wonders to help her relax, let go, and enjoy it much more than she would have had you said nothing.

TIP # 5: ASK WHAT SHE'S INTO

While making out, ask what she is into. A lot of girls will say I don't know! But if she does know, you will give her the opportunity to coach you into what she has been dreaming about. Follow her lead there, do what she asks and the sex will level up guaranteed in her mind. Share a little about what you're into as well to help her open up. Vulnerability for Vulnerability.

Tip # 6: KNOW THE MOST IMPORTANT AREA and WHY IT'S SO IMPORTANT TO GIRLS

I know it's hard, but learn where the clit is. Also make sure she orgasms. And don't assume she can orgasm without direct stimulation on this all important area. Also don't assume she will do it in your presence without your reassurance and encouragement.

TIP # 7: GIVE HER THE GIFT OF YOUR GENEROSITY

She has faced a lot of societal prejudices, fears for her own safety, and let you into her life in the most intimate and vulnerable way. Be a generous, giving gentleman and don't expect reciprocation. She may not feel comfortable giving it yet, testing how much you will invest first and how well you will treat her. For me, it was truly unforgivable if the guy was not respectful and generous in the first encounter. So many are though. The service provided does not go unnoticed and unappreciated.

TIP # 8: MAINTAIN CALM AND RESPECT EVEN WHEN REBUFFED

Worst thing you can do is get upset, triggered, or be reactive when she says she doesn't want to go further. Yes it may be a test to see how willing you are to respect her boundaries. Back off, go down a level in intensity, don't get upset and she may, respecting your attitude and safety you provided her with, become more in the mood later in the night. If not bow out respectfully and follow up the next day and try to see her again!

TIP #9: MAINTAIN CONNECTION AFTER SEX AND DO AFTERCARE

She will remember you if you do this, absolutely.

TIP # 10: TEXT HER THE NEXT DAY AND STAY COMPLIMENTARY AND FRIENDLY EVEN IF YOU DON'T SEE HER AGAIN

Connections, friends, networks are everything in life. You shared something special. Be kind, reassuring, appreciative, and friendly after no matter what happens and she will always think of you fondly forever.

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