Why Men Disappear: 2 Real Reasons!

Want to know why men disappear? What’s going on here?

When you first met this guy, he was involved, he was telling you how amazing you are, that it’s the first time he’s ever felt this way about someone, that he wants to see you all the time… and then he disappears.

Why?

It’s very hard to understand when you’re on the receiving end of this, and it’s extremely frustrating. I’ve coached women since 2007 and I can tell you that men want one thing: A challenge.

Once you fall in love and become invested in him, the power play shifts in his favor, and you run the risk of placing him on a pedestal…

1. Men disappear when you don’t present enough of a challenge

This happens when you put him on a pedestal or when you rush things in a relationship. Its not necessarily your fault - it’s just that the balance of power in this situation has been reversed.

2. He doesn’t feel that he’s ready

He’s not ready for a relationship and more often than not, this is because of his past. Maybe it’s because he was cheated on in his last relationship and it left a terrible taste in his mouth, and because he’s terrible at communicating, he just disappears.

3. He’s not invested

He doesn’t want to be in a relationship, but he doesn’t want to hurt you either. He won’t tell you that his heart isn’t in it and that he thinks that he can find someone better suited to him. He isn’t serious about you and there are communication problems.

So does this mean it’s really over?
The answer is yes. Thinking about it this way creates a shift in your behavior. If this guy is scared or feels like you’re what he wants, then you need to create a shift in the power play. You need to become the prize again.

Focus on your own life, on making yourself happy, on being busy with your friends and projects and don’t focus on him at all.

4. He’s got issues in his personal life

This could mean that he’ll be back later once it’s all sorted out, but for now, he’s dealing with some personal things. It isn’t your fault - it’s just that he has some things going on that are keeping him from investing in a relationship. In my opinion, the best thing to do is to respect his choice and talk to him as you would talk to your best friend. With time, it will evolve into something deeper.

Sometimes, when men aren’t ready for a relationship, they will just disappear so that they can focus on themselves. Once again, it all boils down to bad communication.


Sometimes a guy will come back when he’s ready, and other times it’s about becoming more of an exciting challenge!

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