6 Signs It's Weaponized Boundaries, Not 'Self Love'

Boundaries are essential for maintaining healthy relationships, but sometimes they’re misused as a form of manipulation. In this video, we’ll uncover a few key signs of weaponized boundaries—when someone uses the idea of boundaries to control or manipulate rather than for true self-love and well-being. Understanding these tactics can help you recognize unhealthy boundaries and protect your mental health.

If you recognize these signs in yourself, don’t take it as a personal attack. Instead, view it as an opportunity to reflect and improve your boundaries for healthier relationships.

We'll dive into how to spot manipulated boundaries and the difference between healthy and unhealthy boundaries in relationships. Stay informed and protect your personal space while building better connections.

DISCLAIMER: Real-life situations are nuanced and context matters. Please use your own discernment when navigating such issues.

#boundaries #love #manipulation

Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Amanda SIlvera    / amandasillvera  
Animator: Zuzia
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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