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We assume we know what other people are thinking.
Most of the time, it feels automatic—and harmless.
Sometimes, it quietly costs us something real.

In this video, I talk through how easily those assumptions happen, how convincing they feel in the moment, and how they can quietly reshape a relationship without either person realizing what’s going wrong. I share a small example, then a much more painful one, where a single misunderstanding changed everything.

This isn’t an analysis of psychology or a set of rules to follow. It’s a reflection on how confident we can feel about being right, and how wrong we can be at the same time.

Related Substack post:
https://heartmindfusion.substack.com/...

Chapters
00:00 Acting as if we know what others are thinking
00:38 Why assumptions feel automatic
01:20 Projection and personal bias
02:06 When meaning gets assigned without awareness
03:05 A small misunderstanding
04:10 When the same pattern costs something real
05:12 Ask, don’t tell

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