人情社會的潛規則：悟透這10條，少走彎路

人情社會重人情世故，其特點是多變，難以捉摸。本文分享了10條生存法則：說話方面，看破不說破，客套不掏心，要麼太極要麼沉默；做事方面，會做人比會做事重要，抱大腿比拼命重要，懂進退，不長眼容易遭殃；社交方面，裝窮不炫富，笑臉迎人，傾聽讚揚；根本邏輯是利益互換，你好我好大家好。這些法則只可意會不可言傳，旨在提醒人們在人情社會中保護自己，懂得生存之道。

A human society values ​​human relations and sophistication, and is characterized by change and elusiveness. This article shares 10 rules of survival: when it comes to speaking, see through but don’t tell the truth, be polite without revealing your heart, either Tai Chi or silence; when it comes to doing things, it is more important to be a good person than to do things, it is more important to hold on to others than to work hard, know how to advance and retreat, and it is easy to suffer disaster if you are not long-sighted; social interaction On the other hand, pretend to be poor instead of showing off your wealth, greet people with a smile, and listen to praise; the basic logic is the exchange of interests, hello, me, everyone. These laws can only be understood but not expressed in words. They are designed to remind people to protect themselves and know how to survive in a human society.


蘇衛朗讀每天為您朗誦古今中外經典散文、詩詞、詩歌。分享古今中外名家及優秀作者的作品，期待和您在文學知識海洋中共同成長。
Hello everyone! Welcome to 'Su Weilang Reads'. 'Su Weilang Reads' recites classic prose, poetry, and songs from both ancient and modern times, and from home and abroad, for you every day. We share works of famous authors and outstanding writers from all eras and all over the world, looking forward to growing with you in the ocean of literary knowledge.

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近期优秀作品（Recent Outstanding Works）：
人過70，還能做到這3件事，才是真正的人生贏家！希望你也是
If a person over 70 can still do these three things, they are truly a winner in life! I hope you are too
   • 人過70，還能做到這3件事，才是真正的人生贏家！希望你也是  

許家印坍塌背后：大量暴富者返貧，未來只有一種人能賺錢！
Behind Xu Jiayin's collapse: A large number of the newly rich return to poverty, and in the future, only one kind of person will be able to make money!
   • 許家印坍塌背后：大量暴富者返貧，未來只有一種人能賺錢！  

刘禹锡被贬和州，写下81字千古名篇，选入课本，影响无数人！
Liu Yuxi was demoted to Hezhou, where he wrote an 81-character eternal masterpiece, which was included in textbooks and has influenced countless people!
   • 刘禹锡被贬和州，写下81字千古名篇，选入课本，影响无数人！  

《資治通鑒》八句金玉良言，教你做人做事的智慧，讓你受益匪淺
The 'Zizhi Tongjian' contains eight golden maxims that impart wisdom on how to conduct oneself and handle affairs, benefiting you immensely
   • 《資治通鑒》八句金玉良言，教你做人做事的智慧，讓你受益匪淺  
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