99: Q&A: Serial Cheating | The Loving Truth Podcast with Sharon Pope

In this episode of The Loving Truth podcast, I address the deeply painful issue of serial cheating. Inspired by a listener's story of repeated betrayal in her marriage, I delve into why some people may repeatedly break trust. I explain how inner conflicts, addiction to novelty, and a lack of self-awareness can lead to ongoing infidelity. Finally, I offer compassionate advice on how listeners can find clarity, peace, and direction after discovering serial cheating in their own relationships.

➡️ What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

03:2] I explain Martha Beck's concept of the "social self" (the person we show the world) versus the "essential self" (who we truly are). I connect this idea to Amy’s husband’s behavior, illustrating how his ideal self conflicts with his actions.
05:45 I discuss how people’s actions reveal their true intentions more than words do.
08:20 How serial cheating compares to addiction
14:10 The importance of being honest with oneself and one’s partner.
15:20 In my advice to Amy, I discuss how clarity around one’s own needs and desires is crucial after betrayal.

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Sharon is a certified Master Life Coach and a seven-time International Best-Selling Author on love and relationships. She has been published dozens of times, including in the New York Times, has 300+ blog posts and 300+ YouTube videos.