If he has a “boymom,” RUN. [son confronting narcissistic mom]

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In this episode, Elle, discusses the term "boymom" and the associated red flags when dating men who have such mothers. The term "boymom," when used as one word, refers to a mother who has an unusual obsession with her son, often overshadowing her other children and competing with her son's romantic partners for attention and resources. Elle highlights that these mothers tend to raise their sons to fulfill a partner role, hindering their life progression and often leading to strained or non-existent romantic relationships for the sons. She warns her audience, mainly women, to recognize the signs of a man having a "boymom" and avoid getting involved in such a dysfunctional dynamic. Elle further explores this topic using a video of a man confronting his mother, providing insights into emotionally incestuous mother-son relationships. She emphasizes that it's not the job of a woman dating such a man to set boundaries with his mother; it's the man's responsibility. Elle concludes the podcast by stating that avoiding men with enmeshed relationships with their mothers benefits everyone involved. It forces the man to confront and resolve the issue, leading to overall healing.