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I stopped doing THIS during the holidays, and I’ve never been happier!

People Pleasing...... here are my top 3 tips.

1. Set Boundaries Early and Kindly
People-pleasers often say “yes” to everything, but this can quickly lead to burnout. Before the holidays begin, decide what you realistically have time and energy for, and communicate that clearly. For example, if you can’t host a dinner or attend every event, try saying, “I’d love to, but I won’t be able to this time. Can we plan something after the holidays instead?”
Remember, saying “no” isn’t mean—it’s necessary for your mental well-being.

2. Prioritize What (and Who) Truly Matters
Instead of trying to meet everyone’s expectations, focus on what makes the holidays meaningful for you. Whether it’s spending quality time with close family, baking your favorite treats, or simply relaxing, let your priorities guide your plans.
Pro tip: Make a list of your must-haves for a joyful holiday and let go of anything that doesn’t align with it.

3. Embrace Imperfection and Let Go of Guilt
You don’t have to host the “perfect” party or find the “perfect” gift. People-pleasers often feel guilt when things don’t go as planned, but guess what? Most people care more about the connection than the details.
Remind yourself: A slightly burnt pie or mismatched wrapping paper doesn’t define the success of the season—your peace of mind does.

By setting limits, focusing on what truly matters, and releasing perfectionism, people-pleasers can enjoy the holidays without feeling stretched too thin.

You’ve got this! Which one do you think will be the hardest to implement?