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In relationships… often love gets lost in translation.
The love we intend is not always the love our partner experiences.

For example —
You give space, thinking “I don’t want to suffocate them.”
But your partner feels it as abandonment.

Or you give advice, wanting to help.
But what they needed was presence, just a listening ear.

This mismatch creates confusion and pain.
Psychology calls it — the gap between intention and perception.

Dr. Gary Chapman’s Love Languages research says,
people feel love in different ways — words, time, touch, acts, gifts.
If we express love in our own language,
but it’s not theirs, it won’t land.

Think of a couple.
One partner works long hours, believing financial security is deep love.
But the other feels unloved, because what they need is emotional connection —
a simple dinner, eye contact, laughter.

Both love each other, but the message doesn’t reach.

Attachment theory studies say the same.
Anxious partners read silence as rejection.
Avoidant partners see silence as safety.
Same act… two completely different experiences.

That’s why many say —
“I gave everything, but still it wasn’t enough.”

So pause and ask yourself —
“Does my partner feel loved in the way I’m expressing it?
Or am I just speaking in my own language,
hoping they understand?”

Because real intimacy is not just about love.
It’s about translation.

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