Trying Too Hard Vs. Not Trying At All

How to properly balance out your negative, fearful, desperate and needy tendencies which have led to your trying too hard and chasing good women right out of your life in the past, to not really trying at all and how this causes women to find you so highly desirable that they talk you into dating them and becoming their boyfriend.

In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who shares how he originally found my work after chasing a good woman right out of his life for good. Unfortunately, he did the same thing with a second high quality woman he met initially, but was able to turn things around successfully when they bumped into each other two months later. When he met the second woman, he thought after reading my book twice that he knew it well enough. However, after she stopped responding to his texts, he read my book for the third time and realized that he texted her too much and chased her away. He assumed he would never hear from her again. He continued to practice his skills over the next two months, shares what he learned, how he started doing things differently and how women really started paying more attention to him. Then, one night they ran into each other at a popular bar and nightclub. He shares exactly what he did and said to create attraction and cause her to kiss him at the end of the night. They’ve now been together for six months and it’s better than anything he has ever experienced with a woman before. It’s another great success story of a guy detailing what he did and said differently based upon my work to turn his personal life around.

“It is essential for every man and woman to exercise emotional self control in all matters of the heart. You should not make promises when you are elated and happy. Why? When you come down from that temporary happiness high, you often will regret what you have committed to. It’s better to take your time and contemplate all of the consequences and possibilities of your commitments before making them. In your intimate relationships, you should enjoy your strong feelings of love and desire, but pay attention to the level of reciprocation from the other person. That way, you will never continue to do too much or give too much to the point that you put yourself in a position to be taken advantage of or hurt. Healthy relationships are based upon a balance of mutual giving and receiving.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:

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From my heart to yours,

Corey Wayne