When private impulses become public problems, entire lives can shift.
Satia outlines a roots-based approach to help men quit pornography and reclaim relationships, faith, and purpose. Shame is defined plainly: "Shame tells you to hide." The program emphasizes three pillars: build self-awareness, heal the heart, and shift identity. Early work targets technology with simple steps: remove social media from the phone, turn off notifications, grayscale the screen, and charge the phone outside the bedroom. Expect a drug-like flatline in withdrawal that often eases between three and six weeks. Track trends, treat slips as data, and use relapses to learn. "Trigger diggers" identify external and internal triggers — loneliness, boredom, tiredness, purposelessness — so you can intervene early. Community matters: "The opposite of addiction is not sobriety, it's connection." Group coaching, peer support, and honest companions increase the odds of recovery. For intimate relationships, rebuild honesty and acceptance: confession signals integrity and opens repair. Early exposure is a strong predictor; algorithms and novelty accelerate escalation. Recovery blends practical tech changes, personal root work, community connection, and persistent accountability to restore intimacy, purpose, and a sense of self.
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Topics:
shame and hiding
roots-based approach
build self-awareness, heal the heart, shift identity
remove social media, turn off notifications, grayscale the screen, charge the phone outside the bedroom
drug-like flatline, three to six weeks
tracking trends, slips as data
trigger diggers: external and internal triggers
loneliness, boredom, lack of purpose, lack of connection
community, group coaching, peer support
intimacy, confession, repair
early exposure, algorithms, escalation
faith and purpose
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