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We are EACH here on this earth in this moment for a very high purpose. If you do not fully understand this, THIS is why I am creating all of these "sessions" for us and all of my videos. You are MEANT to know your purpose and be encouraged to start living in/activating the unique gifts and talents that God (God is LOVE, True Divine Love) has gifted to you.

When I am working with clients in my office, often we meet once or twice a week to do the "inner work." If you really want change, spiritual and psychological, then it is important to study and practice slowly and incrementally, just like if you are growing something organically in your garden. There are no "quick fixes." (The Holy Spirit is doing a work within us and we are also participating in that, and learning when to be active, and when to receive and be passive.)

Here I am inviting you to "do the work." Make the time. You are worth this. You were always worth this. (Like therapy, but this is not in replacement of professional therapy if you require that!)

In these "sessions" I often use songs and stories (like the parables) to help us see things from different angles. There are patterns that God takes us through when He is "processing" us to "activate us" so that we can actively use our gifts in this world.

Essentially, when Christ gave us the "new commandment" to LOVE as He has Loved us ...embedded in that calling is the hidden truth, that we have the capacity to Love like that! When we yield to the Divine Love, God, then the Holy Spirit begins to transform us so that we can have Christ alive in us, loving others through us. We become "little Christs" in this world, as C.S. Lewis describes so well in the book Mere Christianity. This is a great mystery and yet one that we are meant to be engaged with.

I am doing my best to enter into this study with you, of how we can know this Love and walk in it more and more.

In THIS video we are looking more specifically at some of the ups and downs of different attachment styles -- so that we can understand ourselves and others and have compassion, heal, and develop a SECURE attachment style from our relationship with God and in relationship with ourselves and others.

It is my understanding that we are meant to be clear vessels, not distracted by all of the things of the world that keep us trapped in anxiety, depression, control, egotism, shame, addiction, trying to prove ourselves, etc. See how all of those things just keep you going in circles! We are meant to BREAK OUT of that matrix so that we can actually be of benefit here (for God, and His Eternal purposes) and effective. Also at the same time, God is developing our eternal soul, remaking us in His image and likeness again, as was always intended.

YES, these are very deep, nuanced and complex things happening. If you are HERE then it is my understanding that you are a kind of leader, so God is just processing us FIRST...because others may have to go through this a much more difficult way. It's not an egotism thing. This process is for all of us.

Much Love! Keep persevering! and welcome here!

"With the comfort you have received, comfort others." (2 Corinthians 1:4)
Dr. Cheryl

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Welcome to my YouTube channel! I am so glad you are here!
My name is Dr. Cheryl Meier.
I am a clinical psychologist in my day job,
and more recently a "lyrical psychologist" 🎶

I use music (all the time) to express deep psychological and spiritual content, so that we can enter these higher realms of understanding, and apply the truths to align with our true telos in Christ, which also happens to better our lives here!
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George MacDonald (C.S. Lewis' spiritual mentor) said:
"Do not teach your children they have a soul,
teach them they are a soul and have a body."

Your soul is always communicating how to get "home" -- back to True Love.
Ultimately, God is Love, so, as Saint Augustine expressed:

Our hearts are restless until they rest in God! ...

Disclaimer: This video and any associated advice & comments shared are not a substitute for professional therapy, mental health care, crisis support, medical advice, doctor diagnosis, or professional healthcare treatment. My videos & other website articles, & social media posts provide general information for educational purposes only - they are offered as suggestions for you and your professional therapist or healthcare advisor to consider and research.

I wish you so much Love!,
Dr. Cheryl Meier
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