In a "pick me" world, be a *girl's girl*

It often seems like it's pick me women on one end and girl's girls on the other, and today I want to get into my perspective on women supporting women. I'll first go into weaponized incompetence, where it's critical to not only hold those upholding misogynistic ideals accountable, but if partners and husbands fall prey to weaponized incompetence, or are absent from a woman's life, it's that "village" of other women that can help her survive and thrive. I then get into Ariana Grande's alleged hunt for married men as a point of discussion to where it may be challenging for women to stand by other women. It's important for women to have standards and to take action in dismantling the misogynistic cycles (and pick me behaviors) that try to entrap women, rather than complain and complain, just to fall back into the same resentful relationships and patterns. Finally, I go into Cat Bohannon's research on how it was woman to woman interdependence that historically helped women survive the act of childbirth, thus causing gynecology to evolve into where it is today. This final talking point is the strongest reasoning on why being a girl's girl will almost always be the way to go, especially in the long run.

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Chapters
00:00 Intro
02:08 Weaponized incompetence (and why it takes a village)
08:00 Ariana Grande, pick me women, and where things get difficult
18:03 How the female body drove years of human evolution

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