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Welcome to the second part of how to be kind, are you kind? I hope you say YESSSS!
Think about this last year, how was it? what did you learn? I hope one of the positive emotions is kindness!

We’re always told to break the rules, but I think there’s often a huge caveat missing: it’s advice for how to do things, not how to treat people. When it comes to social interactions, let the written rules inform your behavior while you figure out what the unwritten standards are. Following such rules as best as you can is less a sign of being a blind follower than it is a gesture of respect for others.
Adapting is a way of being kind, because often, the two are the same.
Subconsciously in conversation, on purpose to be part of the group. I tend to get along well with all kinds of people and I now see a big part of it is doubling down on that trait. Call it diplomatic, call it manners, but no matter how you feel about rules, showing a little flexibility helps us coexist.
Here are some of the unwritten ones I’ve discovered so far:

When you enter a quiet room, be quiet. When you enter a lively room, be lively. In other words: Read the room.

When your opposite is talking to you, don’t use your phone. Don’t even touch it. Chances are, you both can’t multitask.

When people notice you in the street, notice them too. Look, nod, be part of the world. Don’t stare at the ground. Don’t be an antibody. We get little of it these days, so acknowledgement is almost synonymous with respect.

When you meet someone new and notice them using certain words, pick up their vocabulary. An easy way to bond is meaning to say the same thing.

Whoever tells you a story, recap it as a question. “Wait, so you ran out of gas and the station was closed?” It’s called active listening, but it’s empathy.

When you disagree with someone, ask if they think you disagree. Often, it’s not the case. Let them explain again.

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