Gay Therapy: Toxic Hookup Culture

Listen, I’m the first one you’ll catch on Grindr or Scruff maybe a little longer than I need to be sometimes. (And some of you have even said hi there and thanked me for these videos - c’mon community!👋🏼🫶🏼) The thing is, casual sex is good. Sometimes the amount of time I’ve invested into finding some playtime can be problematic though because it’s a time suck and a way to numb out from other shit like loneliness and my own negative story telling. But there’s a big difference between checking in honestly on excess and sex shaming because sex isn’t the problem and we can’t hate ourselves into a version we’ll love. Check out the video and tell me what you think! #psychology #toxichookupculture #mentalhealth #gay #queer #emotionalintelligence #therapy #psychotherapy