The Illusion of Control and the Acceptance of Life's Flow: Satsang with Ramesh Balsekar 2008-01-14

In this satsang, Ramesh Balsekar discusses the concept of control, peace of mind, and the acceptance of life's events as predetermined. The conversation begins with a participant sharing an experience of finding peace in the unpredictability of life, recognizing that each moment will take care of itself without the need for personal control. Balsekar then delves into the nature of peace, explaining that true peace of mind exists independently of external circumstances, whether pleasurable or painful.

Balsekar challenges the notion that peace is incompatible with pain, suggesting instead that peace arises from accepting pain as an inevitable part of life. He emphasizes that the fluctuations of pleasure and pain are beyond human control, but the deeper peace he refers to is rooted in one's attitude and acceptance of life as it unfolds. This peace is not tied to the fleeting experiences of pleasure or the avoidance of pain but is a state of mind that persists despite life's challenges.

A key theme in the discussion is the idea that individuals often mistakenly believe they have control over their actions and outcomes, when in reality, everything is happening according to a larger cosmic order or divine will. Balsekar asserts that the concept of free will is illusory and that one's actions are the result of genetic predispositions and environmental conditioning, both of which are beyond personal control.

The satsang also touches on the importance of accepting the impermanence of pleasure and pain, recognizing that the true happiness humans seek is not found in external experiences but in the ability to maintain peace of mind regardless of circumstances. This realization leads to a profound understanding that one's happiness is not dependent on external conditions but on an internal acceptance of life's inherent unpredictability.

Balsekar concludes by addressing the concept of enlightenment, explaining that it is not about achieving a state of constant bliss but about reaching a state of total acceptance of life as it is. Enlightenment, in his view, is the realization that the ego's sense of control is an illusion and that true peace comes from surrendering to the flow of life, without resistance or attachment to outcomes.

The satsang offers a deep exploration of the nature of peace, control, and acceptance, encouraging participants to let go of the need to control their lives and instead embrace the unfolding of life with equanimity.