Signs Your Husband Doesn't Love You Anymore | Paul Friedman

This serious topic is covered by Paul Friedman with candor and sympathy.
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Here's the truth of the matter. If you're feeling your husband doesn't love you anymore and there are all kinds of degrees of this. Let's back up a little. Let me tell you right now that this is extremely fixable.

Most people wait too long before they start addressing these kinds of issues but usually not too long so it's still addressable in an easier way and I'm going to give you two ways.

1. If your husband is really insensitive towards you, what you do is you look at yourself. If you love somebody, what are the traits that you manifest? You're very caring so if your husband doesn't care anymore he's become sort of apathetic, not a good sign. If you're looking at other men that's really a bad sign. If he's looking at other women it's also a bad sign. If he's starting to use porn, most women don't do that but if he started to use porn, not a good sign. If he's starting to berate you, put you down, disqualify you, criticize you at the drop of a pin, make fun of you, tease you, hurt your feelings intentionally these are all valid signs.

I may not have hit the sign that is happening in your marriage but trusts your instincts on this because your instincts are probably right on.

What do you do?

Don't freak out. You're married so you have this till death do we part template over your marriage which unfortunately is not highly regarded so much anymore but you're still under one roof. You're still living together so there are major changes that you can make and you can bring that love back out.

Here's the thing and this is a little esoteric granted but it's still the truth. You're a soul, he's a soul. The essence of you is the soul -- that's who you are and a soul is nothing but love so the love doesn't really disappear. What's really happening is it's getting blocked and honestly if your husband is not feeling love towards you anymore or he's discouraged by you and he's seeking love elsewhere there's a lot you can do about that.

It's like if someone comes to you and they want some candy and you don't have any they'll go somewhere else. I'm not saying love is candy but I'm just using this as an analogy so men marry women because women have this hard quality where they can express unconditional love much better than they can, and if that's not happening anymore you just have to turn that switch on and it's the same switch you had on when you were dating. It's the one letting him know that he's the most important person in the world.

Look, if it's got to this degree and I'm giving you this advice and it's very simple. You turn it back on. I'm going to tell you that you might as well go for it. People don't realize, they think marital bliss is some kind of greeting card, imagination thing but it's not, it's real but you need to know how to do that.

Both of my books lay marriage out in a way where you learn what to do and what not to do and the why. You learn about the composite of a man based on his gender, body, mind, and soul and about yourself. You learn how to communicate better. You learn all these things that you really should have learned before you got married and it'll come back together.


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