How to Give Feedback to an Aggressive Communicator: 5 steps

Learn to give feedback to an aggressive communicator
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Key Timestamps:
0:34 Step 1: Frame feedback with positive aspirations
0:29 Three types of aspirations to use in feedback
0:41 Feedback Example: Aspirations for employee's communication skills
0:51 Feedback Example: Aspirations for your ability to communicate with the employee
1:02 Feedback Example: Aspirations for team culture
1:10 Step 2: Describe communication style using objective language
1:16 Not effective to say "please stop being aggressive"
1:36 Feedback Example: objective descriptions of aggressive communication styles
1:52 Feedback Example: Use direct quote of aggressive communication
2:00 Step 3: Explain impact and link impact to other's needs
2:19 Feedback Example: Linking negative feelings to unmet needs
2:30 Purpose of linking negative feelings to unmet needs
2:51 Feedback Example: Impact of aggressive communication on others
3:14 Step 4: Check-in and acknowledge their perspective
3:27 Feedback Example: Perspective gathering questions
3:39 Feedback Example: Acknowledge and offer to address their needs
4:00 Feedback Example: When they say you/others also have an aggressive communication style
4:35 Step 5 (optional): Offer to discuss strategies for change
4:59 Example strategies for change
5:11 Feedback Example: Employee who blames people when things go wrong
5:37 Feedback Example: Employee who doesn't acknowledge other's points