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What if your social anxiety is based on a complete misreading of reality, one that a simple cartoonist figured out decades ago?

We INFJs often feel a deep dissonance in social settings: a burning desire for meaningful connection clashes with a paralyzing fear of saying the wrong thing, of being judged, or of drowning in the dreaded small talk we despise. We watch others seemingly glide through conversations and assume we are the odd ones out, defective in some fundamental way that forever separates us from the “normal” social world.
The core mechanism revealed here, drawn from the insights of Scott Adams (creator of Dilbert) and the Dale Carnegie philosophy, is the “10% Narcissist Rule.” The uncomfortable truth is that the confidence you perceive in others is an illusion. Only about 10% of people in any social situation are truly comfortable, and they are often narcissists feeding on the dynamic. The other 90% are just as anxious and self-conscious as you are, merely pretending to know what they’re doing. This recalibrates the entire playing field.
This synthesis means your social anxiety is not a personal failing, but a correctable error in perception. By understanding that nearly everyone is preoccupied with their own internal monologue, you are freed from the burden of believing you are under a microscope. The key to effortless interaction is not about being interesting, but being interested. Shifting your focus from your own performance to simple, curious questions about others (“Where are you from? What brings you here?”) disarms the anxiety and leverages your natural INFJ empathy into a powerful social tool.
This video is dedicated to you, the visionary trapped in your own mind, who craves substance but feels defeated by the superficial. Your anxiety is a lie that can be undone. You are not broken; you are simply operating on faulty intel. It is time to step out of the shadows, armed with the truth that you are not alone in your discomfort, and that your path to connection is simpler than you ever imagined.

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