Ever found yourself questioning if what you’re experiencing in a relationship is love or something much, much darker? Maybe you’re stuck in that endless cycle—feeling cherished one moment, then manipulated, trapped, and isolated the next—wondering if the confusion, anxiety, and even shame are somehow your fault?
Well homie, it’s time we tear that damn illusion to pieces. In this episode, we’re shining the brightest spotlight into the shadows with legendary criminal profiling expert Dr. Ann Burgess. As the Diddy trial takes an incredibly dark turn, Dr. Ann is back to break down the cycle of abuse heard in jaw-dropping detail through Jane’s testimony—so NO woman ever has to fall prey to these toxic patterns again.
There’s a blueprint to how abusers operate, and it DOESN’T always show up as bruises. The cycle is sneaky: devotion turns to obsession, “love” is weaponized for control, and you’re left doubting your reality. But fam, we are DONE letting shame or manipulation keep us silent.
We dig deep into:
The hidden signs of the cycle of abuse and how they can masquerade as love, devotion, or even gifts
Confidence-shattering tactics used by abusers—including humiliation, degrading “tests,” gaslighting, and manipulation
How financial control and dependency become another weapon to keep you trapped
Why those weird gut feelings and “something isn’t right” moments are your most powerful warning signals
What to do if you recognize yourself in Jane’s (or Cassie’s, or Mia’s) story—from crisis centers to finding your voice and support system
Crucial advice for breaking free: how to test back, regain leverage, and build the courage to leave
AND, we’re joined by PopCrimeTV’s Lauren Conlin, host of Pop Crime TV—who’s been planted in the courtroom EVERY SINGLE DAY of the Diddy trial, witnessing history unfold. Lauren brings you the unfiltered, inside scoop on everything:
What it’s really like inside the packed federal courtroom (yes, paparazzi and Kanye West drama included!)
Exclusive updates and reactions straight from the courthouse—no sugarcoating, no spin, just truth
Her raw observations of Cassie, Mia, and Jane as they give their testimonies, and the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways Diddy responds to each survivor
The complex, emotional undercurrents affecting the jury—and what’s really happening when celebrity power comes face-to-face with justice for women
By the end of this episode, you’ll have the tools and awareness to recognize manipulation, call out abuse for what it is, and take action to protect your power and your peace.
So ladies—no more blaming yourself, no more minimizing what you’re feeling, and NO more letting anyone convince you that suffering and control are “love.” We are here, we are PROVING that you’re not alone, and you have the right to be safe, supported, and seen.
Chapter Titles:
[00:00] The Cycle of Abuse
[05:28] Toxic Relationship Power Play
[12:02] Fiery Argument and Wild Accusations
[15:19] Power Games and Manipulation Unpacked
[21:23] Diddy Changes Tune After Lawsuit
[24:18] Kanye Shows Up for Diddy Trial
[32:43] Judge Says No to Witness Recall
[34:31] Jury's Big Decision Ahead
If you or someone you know is experiencing Domestic Violence, help is available. Please call the DV Hotline at (800) 978-3600 for support and resources.
Check out Dr. Ann Burgess’ books:
Pre-order her upcoming book: Expert Witness: https://a.co/d/2BzlPIl
Order her book that’s out now, A Killer by Design: https://a.co/d/doInYVB
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