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This video provides a complete, respectful approach to ending toddler hitting behavior, covering 5 key sections:

1 - Why traditional punishment doesn't work - Understanding that toddlers can't learn when dysregulated
2- The in-the-moment response - Five calm steps to stop hitting without shame: stay regulated, block safely, validate feelings, use minimal words, and provide space
3 - Waiting for calm - Why the teaching conversation must wait until the child is fully regulated
4 - The follow-up conversation - A six-part framework for reconnecting, naming what happened, acknowledging feelings, explaining impact, teaching alternatives, and practicing repair
5 - Prevention strategies - Identifying triggers, building emotional vocabulary, teaching calming tools, modeling respectful behavior, and maintaining connection

Hitting is a normal part of toddler development. It doesn't mean you're a bad parent. It doesn't mean your child is bad. It means your child is learning how to navigate big feelings in a little body with a still-developing brain.

The approach emphasizes that hitting is developmentally normal and that consistent, calm, teaching-based responses build long-term skills while preserving the parent-child relationship.