S1 Ep. 16: The Harm in Pretending

In this episode, I emphasize the importance of living authentically and the harm in pretending. I share my perspective on the importance of honesty and the difficulty of ending unfulfilling relationships.

I dive into how societal expectations often lead us to conform, but living authentically brings freedom and fulfillment. I encourage listeners to evaluate their lives, make genuine connections, and avoid wasting time on pretense. My key message: be true to yourself for a more meaningful and happy life. Reminding us all with wise lyrics of an Ella Langley song, "I could've been her, but that wouldn't be me."

Alexa play "Could've Have Been Her" by Ella Langley

00:00 Contemplating Choices and Identity
00:13 Introduction to the Podcast
00:22 Impact of Choices on Identity
00:48 Self-awareness and Society's Influence
01:29 Authenticity and Self-belief
02:03 Visualizing Potential
02:34 Decisions and Life's Course
03:15 Learning from Past Decisions
03:43 Empowerment through Self-made Decisions
04:59 Living Authentically in Tennessee
05:37 Honesty in Relationships
07:48 Modern Dating and Honesty
09:50 Truthfulness and Kindness
11:46 Avoiding Time-wasting in Relationships
13:18 Supportive Friendships
15:06 Making New Friendships
17:08 Overcoming Ego for Connection
18:44 Building Connections in Nashville
22:41 Growth and Changing Friendships
24:00 Pivoting from Expectations
25:15 Living for Oneself
28:02 Embracing Authenticity in Relationships