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The Psychology of a Rebellious Child: How Unmet Needs Force Kids to Become "The Problem" 👀

Are you exhausted from constant power struggles? Have you labeled your child "defiant," "difficult," or a "problem child"?

This isn't about being a "bad kid." This is a deep dive into the true psychology of child rebellion, revealing why disruptive behavior is a survival strategy and a desperate form of communication when a child feels unheard.

We explore the devastating calculation where a child learns: "Being good gets me ignored. Being bad gets me seen." The refusal to comply is often a refusal to disappear.

In this video, you will learn:
💔 The Origin of Defiance: The exact moment a child learns their quiet needs don't matter, forcing them to escalate to chaos.
🧠 Rebellion as Integrity: Why your child's fight is a healthy response to a dysfunctional environment, not a sign of pathology (Dr. Ross Greene's insights).
👪 The Four Rebel Types: Identify what your child is truly fighting for: Autonomy, Validation, Justice, or Visibility.
🚫 The Punishment Paradox: Why stricter rules and consequences fuel rebellion instead of fixing it, and how they activate the threat response.
🛠️ Decoding the Message: How to translate rebellious phrases like "You can't make me!" into what the child is really saying ("I have no control!").
💡 Healing the Cycle: Practical steps to prioritize Connection Before Correction and offer genuine agency to a difficult child.

It's time to stop fighting the behavior and start healing the wound underneath.
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Referenced Books & Experts:
Dr. Ross Greene (The Explosive Child), Dr. Daniel Siegel (The Whole-Brain Child), Dr. Karyn Purvis (The Connected Child).

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