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In this episode of the Sabrina Zohar Show, Sabrina sits down with Tom Stroud from Love is Blind UK to talk about the avoidant attachment style, modern dating struggles, and relationship dynamics from both male and female perspectives. They discuss the myth behind “If he wanted to, he would,” how avoidance manifests in relationships, and practical advice for handling emotional availability and communication challenges. Sabrina and Tom also answer your questions about navigating distance in relationships, understanding emotional chemistry, and the difference between healthy pacing and avoidance.

Whether you’re anxious or avoidant, this episode offers real talk about love, boundaries, and what it takes to show up for yourself and your partner.

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Chapters:
0:00 Welcome to the Sabrina Zohar Show!
1:11 Tom Stroud's Dating Journey & Avoidant Attachment
8:46 If He Wanted To, He Would?
12:09 How Anxious & Avoidant Partners Trigger Each Other
20:00 “He Won’t Make Time for Me”
28:34 Tom’s Story on Being Ghosted
33:16 “Not Attracted to My Emotionally Available Partner”
41:21 Dating Profile Reviews
50:26 Rapid Fire Q&A (Kids Timeline, Shy Guys, Emotional Intelligence)
58:02 Where to Find Tom Stroud

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