Matthew Hussey: The Secret To Attracting True Love That Lasts

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00:00 Intro
01:39 Becoming a dating coach
05:51 Your breakthrough at the Tony Robbins event
13:13 Getting into public speaking
19:59 Stealing like an artist, fears and taking risks
32:31 Rewriting myths about dating & the handkerchief metaphor
40:49 Modern day handkerchiefs
44:33 Two hit theory
53:06 Stages of deep and lasting attraction
01:02:55 The importance of compatibility
01:08:21 Is there a difference between dating advice for men and women?
01:21:55 Your advantages can become your weaknesses
01:34:10 How much is attraction a choice?
01:44:21 Long term relationships & the honeymoon phase

Season 4 Episode 12

Now more than ever dating apps seem to be the sole focus of people’s attention as far as finding relationships are concerned. But mostly it’s because it feels like there’s no alternative. So how do you actually break through the two dimensional world of online dating (with it’s ghosting, red flags, icks and all) and start attracting real-life long lasting relationships? In this episode I sit down for a conversation with Matthew Hussey, one of the worlds leading dating experts and New York Times Bestselling author who has helped over 10 million people get the love life of their dreams. In the episode we start by discussing how Matthew found himself in the world of dating and relationships before uncovering his formulas for getting over the fear of approaching someone in-person, understanding the components of deep and lasting attraction and attracting true love that lasts well beyond the honeymoon phase. Enjoy!

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Get The Guy By Matthew Hussey - https://geni.us/3Z1oAO8
How to Win Friends & Influence People by Dale Carnegie - https://geni.us/JyR5e
Awaken The Giant Within: How to Take Immediate Control of Your Mental, Emotional, Physical and Financial Life by Tony Robbins - https://geni.us/l8p1g31
The Game by Neil Strauss - https://geni.us/oPWZfbg
Lewis Howes - https://lewishowes.com/
Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson - https://geni.us/IRYqd
Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience by Brene Brown - https://geni.us/ymrd
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel - https://geni.us/LRSMIOO

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