My Ex Told Me to Move On (Is it Over or Not?)

Clay Andrews explains why your ex told you to move on and why it might not mean that your chances are ruined. In fact it might mean that your ex actually wants you back big time.

This is the fourth stage that your ex goes through emotionally in the journey to getting back together called the Crisis Point.

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When your ex tells you to move on, it can be a little soul crushing and leave you feeling hopeless if your goal is to get back together with your ex.

However, what you may not realize is that your ex might actually be closer to getting back together with you than you think if they are telling you to move on.

The truth is that, while yes, sometimes your ex tells you to move on because they are angry, frustrated, and fed up with you.

...However, other times they are doing this because they are actually at one of the stages of getting back together called the Crisis Point.

Your ex may actually be feeling so connected to you that it is putting pressure on them to make a decision about you that they are afraid to make right now.

So they might actually try to discourage you from wanting to get back together. They might tell you to move on. They might tell you to date someone else. They might even tell you weird things like "you're too good for me."

And all of this is simply so that they don't have to confront the reality of how they feel about you.

You see, it’s easier for them to not have to make hard decisions such as leaving a rebound relationship if they know that you aren’t committed to getting back together with them.

So, in a sense this is a test to see how much you actually want to be with them.

if you make a stand for the two of you getting back together, it shows them that it’s time to get serious about getting back together.

If you just give up, then it allows them to stay in their comfort zone and not have to risk looking foolish by making moves to arrange their life to get back together with you.

I know it can be a little confusing, but your ex is scared and they just want to make the right choice.

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