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Ever wondered why so many young adults haven’t dated or why some relationships never seem to work out?

Violet Lim, Founder of Lunch Actually Singapore, a dating expert behind 160,000 first dates, shares insights drawn from years of experience helping singles navigate love.

In this episode, we explore:

🟪 The most common patterns people fear in relationships
🟪 Why dating is a numbers game and what actually matters
🟪 Signs someone is truly ready for a relationship
🟪 How social media and COVID have reshaped dating and communication
🟪 The truth about soulmates, first dates, settling & finding the right partner

This episode offers practical advice for singles, insights for couples, and perspectives that encourage reflection on how we connect, communicate, and build meaningful relationships.

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00:00: Introduction
01:27: Patterns people fear most in relationships
02:12: Dating as a numbers game
02:53: When someone’s actions don’t match their relationship goals
04:02: Signs a person is ready for a relationship
04:50: How someone reacts when they realise they aren’t ready
07:40: Why many young Singaporeans haven’t dated
09:10: Evaluating the return on effort in relationships
09:48: How social media shapes dating perspectives
10:40: COVID’s impact on social skills and connection
11:03: How Gen Z communicates differently
12:00: What a situationship is
13:05: Habits to avoid when looking for a relationship
14:26: Factors to consider when seeking a relationship
15:37: Purpose of first dates
19:45: Expectations during dates
20:49: The truth about soulmates and ‘The One’
28:23: How a partner’s family influences a relationship
30:18: Settling for someone in a relationship
37:06: Patterns of a successful relationship
40:05: The mindset singles need to attract the right partner
41:14: Outro