How To Win Back Your Spouse

If you want to win back your husband or wife, then this is for you. If you're thinking, "You don't understand. My marriage is too far gone. They're too angry. They're too disconnected. It's absolutely hopeless," then I'm going to tell you I disagree. I don't believe that any marriage is absolutely hopeless. I believe that most marriages can be saved, even if it seems absolutely impossible right now.

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Why do I believe this? My name's Kimberly Holmes. I'm the CEO at Marriage Helper. Over the past 20 years Marriage Helper, and the team that we have here, worked with over 250,000 people that have gone through our courses, seminars, and trainings and we have saved 70% of the marriages that we work with in our workshops. We've seen the craziest situations saved. We've seen the most disconnected spouses saved, the ones that were only coming to our workshop for the divorce papers to be signed, for only for co-parenting, and only for last ditch efforts- saved. So even though you might feel like it's impossible, I believe that there's hope.

In this video, I want to share with you a couple of quick things that you can start doing that can hopefully lead you toward bringing your spouse back. Here's the thing. This stuff really works. I've seen it work thousands of times with thousands of people in thousands of different situations. But here's the thing. It's not a guarantee. I'm not going to be one of those people that has this, "Here's the one phrase you need to say for your spouse to come running back into your arms and lusting after you for the rest of your life." That is not this video. No. It's not any false guarantee, but it is a guarantee that if anything can work to get your spouse to start coming back to you, then this will and this can. I'm excited to share that with you today.

The first thing that you can do in this situation is you want to soften. Soften? What in the world does that mean? Here's what that means. In our minds, the most important part of our body, can affect us. That is, whatever we're thinking about, whatever we believe, whatever we're ruminating on in our thoughts change everything else about us. They can change our body language. They can change our tone of voice, the words we say, and the actions we do all because of what we think about.

So, if right now you're thinking about how angry you are at your husband or wife; you're thinking of how hurt you are; you're thinking of how much you can't believe that this happened; or maybe you're thinking of how guilty you feel as if you should have been able to do something to stop this from happening, all of those things affect you. They're going to affect your actions, reactions, and your interactions that you have with your husband or your wife. And a lot of those things can make us angry. They can make us emotional.

I'm not saying you shouldn't have these emotions. It is okay to be hurt, angry, or sad. But when you let those emotions control everything about you, it can affect the way that you interact with your spouse. You can reach a point where you start pushing them away by your actions such as yelling at them all the time, attacking them every chance you get, telling them “I can't believe you’re disconnected from me,” or, “why are you treating me this way,” or whatever it might be can inadvertently push them away. Read our post about this at http://www.marriagehelper.com/how_to_...

0:00 Introduction
0:03 HOW TO WIN BACK YOUR SPOUSE
0:19 HOPE
0:38 250,000+ PEOPLE HELPED
0:46 77% SUCCESS RATE
1:56 IF ANYTHING WILL WORK THIS WILL
2:06 YOU NEED TO SOFTEN
3:07 YOUR THOUGHTS AFFECT EVERYTHING
3:48 PUSH THEM AWAY
4:33 FORGIVE YOUR SPOUSE
5:12 DON'T PURSUE YOUR SPOUSE
5:47 WORK ON YOU
6:19 DON'T GIVE UP
6:44 WE CAN HELP YOU
7:18 COMMENT BELOW!