The Surprising Reason Why Women Leave Good Men

Women leave good men, men who are good providers, good husbands and good fathers because they miss one critical thing. If you're a man who learned to suppress your emotions, that suppression may be the reason she left the marriage.

If you want to stop the pain of divorce, regain your confidence and move forward with purpose, hope and energy, then I can help.

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I’m Rachael Sloan, Master NLP Practitioner, certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce. I've helped hundreds of men move past the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. I hope to help you do the same.

DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.

Why do women leave good men?

This is one of the top questions I get asked as a divorce recovery coach. Many of my clients come to me confused. They were good husbands. They were faithful. They worked hard. Made good money. They were great fathers.

And yet she left.

Why?

If you've been following you know I've been focusing on emotional security. But there is another element at play here, and that is the fact that many men learn to suppress their emotions in order to succeed.

This might not seem like such a big deal, yet it is often the root cause for divorce.

The problem with emotional suppression is that when you do it, it probably works well most of the time. It helps you succeed in your career and it helps you stay in your logical, rational brain. So you may very naturally expect other people to do the same.

But when you expect someone else to suppress what they feel they often interpret that expectation as rejection, not an expression of love.

None of this is your fault. You didn't choose to suppress your emotions, and you didn't know how she was really feeling when you expected her to do the same. But if you take the time to become curious and more aware, understanding these ideas will help you avoid painful disconnection in the future.