What Women Really Want from Men (Its Lack is the Cause of Most Divorce)

There is a very specific form of emotional security that woman want in relationships. If it's missing, no amount of money, good looks or great sex is likely to keep her with you.

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Men often show me statistics demonstrating exactly that. And it makes sense, because both societal messaging and biological drives around reproduction both seem to push in that direction.

But it’s not the whole story.

I know it’s not the whole story for two reasons:

There are thousands of women out there right now who are divorcing good looking men who make good money

In fact, that might be the number one source of confusion I hear about from divorced men - they were good providers, they created a great life for her and the kids, they were kind and never abusive… and yet she’s leaving.

There are outliers in the data.

I don’t know about you, but I don’t want to live the rest of my life with that kind of bitterness. Not when there is evidence that there is something else going on, something else that women actually want and value more than money, more than looks and more than financial security.

I’ve been studying my clients and the causes of their divorces. I’ve been talking to women. And I’ve been examining my own marriage, in the good moments and in the awful moments.

And I’ve found the answer to this question, what it is that women really want.

We want a very specific form of emotional security.

When I say you, I’m not laying any blame on you as a man. Women suck at this too. The reality is that most PEOPLE have no idea how to provide this kind of security for their partners, even though this is exactly the kind of safety both men and women desire most.

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