How To Get Women To Approach You

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Today, I have a really interesting topic to share with you. It’s one that I’ve thought a lot about and that is how to get a woman to approach you. It’s a simple theory called preselection, by which you actually select the woman that you want to approach you. “Preselection” is a principle that dictates that women are more attracted to men that seem attractive to other women. In order to apply this power principle, you must demonstrate that you are preselected by other women. Before we get into that, I need to give you a little more context.
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Quick question for you guys, do you believe that women are more attracted to men who appear to be taken and/or who are coveted by other women? Take the poll and let’s see what you guys think? And I’ll answer if later on in the video.
In economics, there is a law called supply and demand. This theory explains the relationship between the supply of a resource and the demand for that resource. It looks at the resource’s availability and how that availability affects the value of that resource. If the supply is high, then, generally, the demand is low and the price is weak. Conversely, when the demand is high and the supply is low then the price increases. I like to apply this law to dating in that when you, the resource, make yourself readily available to women, you decrease your value. You appear desperate. However, when you don’t make yourself readily available, you increase the demand for your time and ultimately increase your dating value. You’re seen as rare and valuable
Psychology and business professor Robert Cialdini has researched extensively how scarcity works in persuasion, which we can apply to attraction. Cialdini is well-known for his book called Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion. And in this book, he outlines 6 universal principles on how to master the art of persuasion. These 6 principles are: reciprocity, commitment, social proof, authority, liking, and lastly scarcity.
For the purpose of this video, there are two principles that I want to look at, and they are social proof and scarcity. Social proof means that people will do things that they see other people doing. And scarcity means that the perceived rarity of a resource will generate demand.
What does this have to do with attraction and getting women to approach you? Well, it actually has everything to do with it. You see, it’s fine and dandy for me to tell you to be a man of value, which will, in turn, make you more attractive in women’s eyes. But how do you go about becoming that man? You do so by applying this theory of preselection. You make women attracted to you by showing that there are other women interested in you first. When you increase your demand, you increase your value. And social behavior proves this that in terms of persuasion, people will do and like things that they see other people doing and liking as well.
Women are attracted to guys to whom other women are attracted. Women judge your attractiveness based on the way other women view you. It’s kind of crazy, but you know that old saying, “women want what they can’t have.” In a way, that applies here. I should mention that this is not all women, but a lot of women unconsciously respond and make judgements about a man’s attractiveness based on how other women respond to him.

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